So you've met someone that you like on transgender dating apps. What's next? Planning a perfect trans date is stressful, but we have some ideas.
Finding ways to impress your new tranny date can be stressful. First dates are usually easy to arrange because it's best to keep it simple. A casual cup of coffee or an after-work cup of coffee is enough to see if you want to get to know each other better. But after that, the pressure intensified. Second and third dates can lead to breakups. You're getting to know each other, and a bad date could mean the end of your relationship. Believe me.
Once I planned a first date and decided we should meet at a bar. We had a drink in the bar, walked around the food stand, had delicious mesquite and desserts that looked like hamburgers and Fried chicken, and listened to music live. It was a huge success.
He wants to make an appointment for number two. It was a day date and was supposed to be a surprise. I was asked to wear "sportswear" and that's not what I wanted! I picked him up, but he still didn't tell me where to go, he just showed me the way while I was driving. When we got to the indoor trampoline center, I wanted to pretend I had appendicitis. This is my worst nightmare as a completely incongruous person. It was hours of vigorous, sweaty, embarrassing torture. No third transgender dating...
So planning a second or third date is a big deal! Who will organize it? What does the other person want to do? You want some atmosphere to avoid awkward silences, but not too much, because you don't want to rule out the possibility of it becoming romantic!
Recently I was in charge of planning a third transgender date, and on the first and second dates we had decided we were both foodies and we both liked to try new things. After googling "interesting things" and "San Francisco's best date restaurants" on Google, I was more stressed than I was when I started because I had so many choices.
Although we were trans dating and sharing a table, we enjoyed chatting with other diners over champagne at the beginning of the evening, but once we were blindfolded, it felt like we were alone at the table with our trans date.
It is often said that the loss of one sense strengthens the other, and it was true at this dinner. We listened carefully as the food was brought to the table, smelled it, sometimes touched it, whispered to each other, trying to figure out what we were eating. We also have a lot of moved, you know, just to know where we are, because we can not see each other. Yes, that's why!
After eating three dishes, we found out what they were, what ingredients we should be able to taste, and then we went to see the chef. After dinner, we hang out in restaurants, drink in bars, chat and get to know each other better.
This is without a doubt the best date I've ever had. It's fun, exciting, and very different from a standard dinner date. It's the perfect atmosphere for someone just starting out on a trans date and there's no pressure to make the evening a success because it's almost done for us!